Thursday, July 31, 2003

• My first time with a woman 

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
I was reading over in the Blogasm blog bettymcboobs's tale of the first time she Licked a Girl and it reminded me of my first time.

For me & P, it was our first time in bed with someone else [1]. Our friend A was visiting for the weekend & I knew that P & A were very (*very*) attracted to each other, so I told P that I wouldn't mind if we all ended up in bed together [2]. So, in accordance with our plan, when it was time for us all to retire for the evening, I asked A, "You have a choice. Whatever you decide is fine with us; we won't be offended either way. We have a Queen-sized air mattress which you can sleep on out here or, you're welcome to share our bed with us." She chose to share our bed! Yay!

We all got cleaned up for bed (ie. brushing teeth, etc.) and A & I snuggled up on either side of P under the covers. We chatted a bit and after a while I reached for P's cock. Well, surprise! A's hand was already there! No wonder he seemed a little "out of" the conversation! LOL Things proceeded from there - it's been a while so the details are fuzzy - but I remember sucking on A's ample bosom and playing with her sensitive nipples and then she slid over to take P's cock in her mouth. P twisted around to tongue my pussy, so I figured what the hell? and dove into her muff.

Hers is completely different from mine. Her labia are much smaller than mine and, while she also has a piercing, she's built such that a vertical piercing works better for her. Her pussy was very sweet, not musky at all, and quite wet already. *yum*

I'm sure I wasn't wonderful at it - it was my first time, after all! - but I did enjoy our "triangle" quite a bit. So much so, in fact, that we repeated it the next night, after spending the day doing tourist things in the city.

That's all you're getting today, I'm afraid. I have to leave the house for the day to attend to some business, but I should be able to continue the story I started yesterday when I return tomorrow.

[1] well, P had experienced a FFM threesome back in the days of his youth, but it was the first time for *us* (and, indeed, for me)
[2] I think the actual conversation went more along the lines of "Since I have another appointment on Sunday night, would you mind if I asked A to take care of you while I'm gone?" P froze in his tracks and hesitantly asked, "What exactly do you mean by take care of me?" *chuckle*



Wednesday, July 30, 2003

• A Visit from Friends 

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
Back in the Introduction post, I promised I'd tell y'all about a recent adventure my husband & I had.

We were paid a 9-day visit from 2 friends who we used to live near. The male half of the couple (male & female, newly-engaged) & I used to work together for about 5 years, so we were pretty good friends. He & I had been IM'ing fairly regularly since we moved away and all 4 of us were looking forward to their visit. During our IM sessions, the subject of sex came up (doesn't it always? *grin*) and H & I decided that, if "something" were to happen, that'd be just fine by us, and if not, that's cool, too. Fortunately, we both have very open-minded and easy-going partners who didn't mind if "something" were to happen between H & me - or even between the 2 of them. H confided in me that nothing makes him more aroused than knowing that W is enjoying herself.

So, H and W came to visit. We planned to do a bunch of touristy stuff - there's plenty to do in this area - and hang out & catch up on old times. H turned out to be even more shy than he had warned me of via IM! After 4 days & nights, the only "something" that had happened was shower-swapping (ie. I showered with H, my husband showered with W, we fondled each other & kissed, W sucked my husband's cock a little, nothing more). hmph

That changed on the 5th day. Exhausted and badly sunburned, H, W, & I decided to stay home for the day and rest (my husband had to go to work). While lounging nude about the living room, I was laying on the couch while H & W were lounging on the floor (H leaning up against the couch). W starts to lightly stroke H's cock, which appreciates the attention. ;-) H leans back to kiss me while W snuggles under his arm. Eventually I say, "If y'all scoot over just a little bit, there'll be room for me down there, too." They scooted over, so I joined them on the floor.

I spoon behind H, kissing his ears, neck, shoulders, etc. I sidle my way down his arm and onto his belly and end up with his lovely cock in my mouth. Such soft and tender skin! He keeps the whole area shaved, too.

*chuckle* In all the years I've known him, I've never heard him whimper like that. ;-)

He seemed to appreciate my ministrations and I know that W was kissing him quite passionately, too, which just fueled his fire. It must have been very intense for him because he cried out, "Oh, God, please let me come!" which, unfortunately, had the effect of making W & I break out in giggles, so the end result was that we slowly stopped what we were doing.

We had to leave in a few minutes anyway to keep an appointment we'd made.

That night, W wasn't feeling well - probably something she ate at dinner - so we all ended up just going to sleep.

The *next* night, however, after we'd had this *ahem* taste, we went to dinner at a local British pub & got pretty drunk. On the way home, I distracted H from the scenery by kissing him and fondling his cock through his pants. Once we were at home, we put in a porn flick ("Edge Play" with Marilyn Chambers) and the 4 of us got distracted some more.

The 4 of us sat on the couch with glasses of wine. My husband (hereinafter labelled "P") started caressing W's magnificent breasts and while she moaned, H & I started kissing and caressing each other. Soon, P was on the floor in front of W eating her tight pussy while I encouraged H to watch her writhe and listen to her moan while I gently nibbled on him. Eventually H tickled my clit with his tongue before I pushed him backwards onto the floor and climbed on, sliding his dick into me. After several orgasms on my part, he came and we snuggled a little bit. By this time, W was on the floor in front of P giving him what sounded like a very pleasing blow job. I excused myself to go to the bathroom & when I returned, H followed suit. While he was gone, I curled up on the couch next to P and started teasing his nipples while W continued to suck his cock most enthusiastically. I kissed him & whispered in his ear things like "Oh, isn't she beautiful sucking your cock like that? Don't you just love the feel of it?" etc., to which he moaned and groaned his agreement. H came back in while the 3 of us were so engaged and ended up on the floor behind W and slid his cock into her. Boy, *her* moaning sure kicked up a notch! :-)

We carried on like this for a little while, then H stopped fucking W and turned to me. I kissed P one more time and joined H on the floor, where he entered me again and made me squiggle in delight before coming again. Meanwhile, W climbed up onto P's cock and rode him until he came.

Afterwards, we all got cleaned up, snuggled and drank some more wine. We commented that we'd missed most of the porn movie! LOL

Eventually, we retired for the night.

P took the next day off of work and we planned to do more tourist things together, but afterwards..., well, I'll save that for another post.

Maybe tomorrow....



Tuesday, July 29, 2003

• A Day in the Life.... 

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
Sometimes it amazes me how much I think about sex. How horny I am nearly all the time, even now when I'm suffering from horrible cramps. I masturbate nearly every day, usually multiple times. Sometimes I think about my husband - his oh-so-soft hands, his nimble tongue, his soft, warm lips, his rock-hard big cock. I fantasize about him touching me, all over, gently and tenderly, kissing me softly and warmly, caressing my body. I think about how good his hands feel on me, how good his cock feels when I suck it, when I kiss it, when I hold it to me, when it's inside of me. How he looks me in the eyes and tells me that he loves me, how he does everything in his power to make sure that I'm not left sitting on the fence, if at all possible. How he enjoys my body.

Sometimes I fantasize about one of my other lovers. They are each so different from my husband. I fantasize about S's strong hands, his muscular legs, his exquisite tongue, his slightly-curved cock. I fantasize about H's shy smile, his shaved balls, his gentle kiss.

Sometimes I mix them all up and fantasize about all of them at the same time. DP is one of my most popular fantasies, it's true, the fantasy of being the center of attention, having trusted and loved men touching me and kissing me all at the same time for no reason other than because they delight in giving me pleasure. Ah, it's times like this that I love being a woman....

I played this morning with one of my new toys. I went to a video screening at one of the Good Vibrations SF locations and they were having a 10% off sale, so I picked up a Crystal Jelly Deluxe Waterproof Vibe and a G-Candy Vibe. I got the Crystal Jelly (AKA "Nubby G") one because I originally had the non-waterproof model, but used it so much it wore out - the jelly material is separating from the inner workings. I got the G-Candy one because I had been looking for a hard-sided curved "G-spot" vibrator & this one looked just right.

Oh, boy is it "just right"!! I LOVE IT! It hits me in just the right spots! It's long enough to get past my urethral sponge (that spongy stuff just inside of my vagina) and put pressure on the farther reaches of my vaginal walls - places which don't normally get that kind of contact. It's also hard enough to provide firm pressure on the sponge itself as well as long enough to have the tip buzz on the sponge and lay the shaft of it along my inner lips and clit. ::squiggling with joy:: The buzzing tip is also nice right on my clit - I have a horizontal hood piercing (14k yellow gold CBR) and when the vibe is in the right spot on my clit, the ring buzzes and buzzes!

The G-Candy vibe touching my sponge with the shaft laid along my lips and clit, combined with the Crystal Jelly one inserted into my vagina, add up to a mind-blowing orgasm!

I'm looking really forward to having my husband's cock in my ass while playing with these toys at the same time. Maybe I ought to get out the video camera to show him what I'd like done....



Sunday, July 27, 2003

• MSNBC Asks about Sexless Marriages 

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
Just as an FYI, msnbc.com's "TODAY" section is asking for stories about sexless marriages.

http://www.msnbc.com/news/931302.asp

They say, "Do you find that your marriage is starving for sex? You and your spouse are just too busy, too stressed, or too tired? If so, we’d like to hear your stories."

...
My first marriage was sexless for the last 4 years, but it was due to fundamental incompatabilities between us. Hence, the divorce. Now, my 2nd marriage is WONDERFUL - heck, we're like BUNNIES! :-) Just right for a horny gal like me.

Anyway, that's it for a Sunday afternoon post - more this coming week, I promise.


Friday, July 25, 2003

• Introduction -  

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
I've decided to start a sex blog. Why? Aren't there enough sex blogs out there already? There certainly are a lot of them out there, it's true, but none of them are about *me*! :-)

Anyway, a little about me: I'm your host Twiddly Bits. I'm female, in my mid-30s, married to a wonderful man, and voracious about sex. (My husband often says that he's living a Penthouse Letter.)

Hold the 'phone! Did you say "married"?

Yes, I did, but that doesn't necessarily mean "monogamous", does it? ;-) My husband & I have a very committed and intimate relationship, but neither of us sees anything wrong with fun sex with other people, *provided* that we both know about it. We prefer to participate together (and always have, so far), but as long as neither of us keeps any secrets from the other or lies about anything, it's all good.

In the interest of privacy, no real names or identifying details will be used in this blog, ever.

So, that's about it for now. I hope to keep this blog regularly updated with all kinds of adventures and sexy things. We had quite an adventure last week and I plan to write about it very soon.

Meanwhile, be sexy, sane and safe!

-TwiddlyBits