TwiddlyBits' Sex Blog
The ramblings of a very horny woman.
(...with regular guest submissions from her cross-dressing husband)
Thursday, November 27, 2003
• The long-awaited dinner with K
Last night was our scheduled dinner with K.
He called when he left his place to let me know he was on his way over. When he arrived, he took a seat in our comfy chair with a beer. Dangly turned on the grill while I prepared the steaks (3 large, double-bacon-wrapped filet mignons) and the salad (fresh greens with home-grown almond, peanut, garbanzo, and spicy mix sprouts) and sautéed the mushrooms.
We chatted & sipped our beers. When the food was ready, we ate.
After the meal, we retired back to the living room where I asked K to sit on the couch so I could cuddle with him. He seemed so shy! I put his hand on my leg while I leaned against his (lovely, strong) arm.
We talked about all kinds of things - he asked us why we had a profile on AFF (I told him the truth: I was curious what would come of it), why we have an open marriage, what does it mean when Dangly says he's a "cross-dresser" and stuff like that. It was a really good talk. K really is a nice guy & is quite intelligent.
However, he had had a busy day and a busy week, as had I. He admitted that he wasn't really "in the mood" because he was so tired, which frankly was fine with me as I was exhausted, too. He went out of his way to assure me that he really did want to meet again, but that he needed to get up early the next day (Thursday) to go on a 4-day motorbike trip to Death Valley and back.
So, as he was getting ready to go, we agreed to meet the week between Christmas & New Years - it's the first time I have a day off after today. He is taking the time off of work and so will be available at just about any time, as will I. We agreed to set up a firm date when the time gets closer.
Then he left.
*sigh*
To be honest, I pouted a bit after he left. I told Dangly that I was feeling somewhat rejected. He didn't let me feel that way for long, though. He picked me up, carried me to the bedroom, unwrapped me & proceeded to lick my pussy (utilizing one of my waterproof vibes to good effect) until I was climbing the walls in ecstacy, then he got onto the bed & we fucked in Reverse Missionary (whee!) until he shuddered with his own orgasm.
Today, on our way to Thanksgiving dinner at a friend's house, Dangly & I had this conversation:
So, I think when I call K to set up our next date, I will suggest that he & I meet somewhere alone & see what develops.
[UPDATE: ... or maybe he's not interested in me after all and just doesn't have the guts to tell me?]
He called when he left his place to let me know he was on his way over. When he arrived, he took a seat in our comfy chair with a beer. Dangly turned on the grill while I prepared the steaks (3 large, double-bacon-wrapped filet mignons) and the salad (fresh greens with home-grown almond, peanut, garbanzo, and spicy mix sprouts) and sautéed the mushrooms.
We chatted & sipped our beers. When the food was ready, we ate.
After the meal, we retired back to the living room where I asked K to sit on the couch so I could cuddle with him. He seemed so shy! I put his hand on my leg while I leaned against his (lovely, strong) arm.
We talked about all kinds of things - he asked us why we had a profile on AFF (I told him the truth: I was curious what would come of it), why we have an open marriage, what does it mean when Dangly says he's a "cross-dresser" and stuff like that. It was a really good talk. K really is a nice guy & is quite intelligent.
However, he had had a busy day and a busy week, as had I. He admitted that he wasn't really "in the mood" because he was so tired, which frankly was fine with me as I was exhausted, too. He went out of his way to assure me that he really did want to meet again, but that he needed to get up early the next day (Thursday) to go on a 4-day motorbike trip to Death Valley and back.
So, as he was getting ready to go, we agreed to meet the week between Christmas & New Years - it's the first time I have a day off after today. He is taking the time off of work and so will be available at just about any time, as will I. We agreed to set up a firm date when the time gets closer.
Then he left.
*sigh*
To be honest, I pouted a bit after he left. I told Dangly that I was feeling somewhat rejected. He didn't let me feel that way for long, though. He picked me up, carried me to the bedroom, unwrapped me & proceeded to lick my pussy (utilizing one of my waterproof vibes to good effect) until I was climbing the walls in ecstacy, then he got onto the bed & we fucked in Reverse Missionary (whee!) until he shuddered with his own orgasm.
Today, on our way to Thanksgiving dinner at a friend's house, Dangly & I had this conversation:
me: Markus sure does seem shy, doesn't he?As is typical of so many of our conversations, we were thinking the same thing.
Dangly: Yes, quite.
me: I'm wondering if he'd be less shy if he & I met alone and I'm wondering how you'd feel about that?
Dangly: You know, I was wondering the same thing myself.
So, I think when I call K to set up our next date, I will suggest that he & I meet somewhere alone & see what develops.
[UPDATE: ... or maybe he's not interested in me after all and just doesn't have the guts to tell me?]
Saturday, November 22, 2003
• Stream of consciousness
I love the reverse missionary position.
The way his shaft presses against my clit makes me feel like I'm riding the crest of a tsunami surfing to ever greater heights of ecstasy as I thrust I thrust I thrust my hips over and over again feeling the waves build feeling the pressure build feeling the wonder of being just one giant bundle of nerve endings my clit growing and pulsing my clit swelling and I become my clit my clit surfs the waves my clit tingles my clit feels the pressure the swelling waves the pounding of the water the rising of the tide as it builds higher and higher his shaft pushing harder I thrust I thrust I feel his breath I feel his heartbeat I feel his fingers grasp my ass his legs wrapped around my waist his breathing becoming more ragged my breathing coming faster and faster I thrust I thrust I feel the pulsating waves of his orgasm as he holds me tight while he shudders and moans his pulsing shaft forcing me off my surfboard and into the tidal wave as it breaks on the shore all is chaos and roiling sea and moans of ecstasy as I clutch at him holding onto him as if he is the rock that will save me from the pressure of the waves.
Finally I surface and breathe and look at him he is breathing too we smile at each other as I slowly thrust my hips a few more times enjoying the aftershocks the smaller waves that follow the massive one the ones which kiss the shore gently and easily we kiss we kiss we cuddle we love.
The way his shaft presses against my clit makes me feel like I'm riding the crest of a tsunami surfing to ever greater heights of ecstasy as I thrust I thrust I thrust my hips over and over again feeling the waves build feeling the pressure build feeling the wonder of being just one giant bundle of nerve endings my clit growing and pulsing my clit swelling and I become my clit my clit surfs the waves my clit tingles my clit feels the pressure the swelling waves the pounding of the water the rising of the tide as it builds higher and higher his shaft pushing harder I thrust I thrust I feel his breath I feel his heartbeat I feel his fingers grasp my ass his legs wrapped around my waist his breathing becoming more ragged my breathing coming faster and faster I thrust I thrust I feel the pulsating waves of his orgasm as he holds me tight while he shudders and moans his pulsing shaft forcing me off my surfboard and into the tidal wave as it breaks on the shore all is chaos and roiling sea and moans of ecstasy as I clutch at him holding onto him as if he is the rock that will save me from the pressure of the waves.
Finally I surface and breathe and look at him he is breathing too we smile at each other as I slowly thrust my hips a few more times enjoying the aftershocks the smaller waves that follow the massive one the ones which kiss the shore gently and easily we kiss we kiss we cuddle we love.
Friday, November 21, 2003
• Brief announcement...
I would just like to say that a hand-held pulsating shower massage combined with a waterproof vibe is about as close to heaven on earth as I could ask for.
That is all.
That is all.
• Slight change of plans
There's been a slight change of plans.
As you may recall we were scheduled to have K over for dinner tonight. Well, a few days ago he emailed me to ask if we could reschedule our meeting (to sometime "in the NEAR future", he said) because his indoor soccer league just published their game schedule & he's got a game tonight (usually they play on Wednesday nights).
This actually works out well for us, too, because poor DanglyBits has been sick all week. He stayed home from work on Wednesday & Thursday & is still a bit weak today, even though he did go to work. He wants to be feeling well when we play with K because he wants to fully enjoy it, too!
So, here's the new plan: If Dangly is feeling up to it tonight after work, we will go down and watch K play soccer. K will come to our place for dinner next Wednesday night (the night before Tgiving) [update: AFTER his soccer game].
Of course, I'm fantasizing about helping K shower after the game tonight, but that probably won't happen since we'll have to leave early to go pick up Dangly's brother from the airport. Still, it's a pleasant fantasy. I think I'll need to go play with some of my toys soon - after all, they *are* waterproof....
***
I came home from work last night to find my poor sick Dangly all snuggled up in heaps of blankets on the couch. When it was time to go to bed, he had a woeful story to tell me. It seems that, to keep himself occupied all day, he had been reading erotica. Now "Phred & the Boys" were "blue" and needed my ministrations. I guess he was feeling better, eh?
So, I took him into the bedroom & asked him to undress me (he couldn't even do that on Wednesday night because he felt so miserably sick). Of course, he ended up caressing my teats and teasing my nipples and fondling my ass. Along the way, he discovered that my cunt was not exactly mimicking the Sahara and I ended up pushing him over onto his back. His cock was as big and beautiful as I've ever seen, so I gently pulled back his foreskin and caressed the head and crown with my tongue, enjoying the subtle taste of his precum and the soft feel of his skin. I then crawled on top of him and, hands-free!, guided it into my waiting, eager pussy. I rode him for a while (I knew taking horseback lessons as a teenager would come in handy someday. I'll never complain about learning to post again!) then he grabbed hold of me and swung his legs up onto the bed & turned so that he was laying along the length of the bed & not across it. From there, I put my knees down around his hips, which gives me the leverage to thrust my hips which allows me to pump faster than if I use my knees (plus it's less tiring - PLUS it rubs my clit nicely!).
After about 5 or 6 orgasms that way - not exaggerating, it had been nearly a week, remember! - I moved my knees down farther & Dangly opened his legs & wrapped them around me & we were in the position he described in his last blog post, kind of a reverse-missionary position where my legs are between his & his legs are wrapped around me. We found that this works best when he squeezes my ass - this helps to keep his cock securely in my pussy (as well as providing more stimulation for me!). In this position, his cock puts quite a bit of pressure on my clit & I just see stars!!
It didn't take him too long to come after that & I kept pumping for a little while to my own stellar orgasm.
He had a coughing fit after that & I hopped off him to give him room to breathe. Soon we discovered that we had "Lake Superior" for our wet spots - yes plural! - & we laughed while we cleaned up, then settled into bed to cuddle & sleep.
As you may recall we were scheduled to have K over for dinner tonight. Well, a few days ago he emailed me to ask if we could reschedule our meeting (to sometime "in the NEAR future", he said) because his indoor soccer league just published their game schedule & he's got a game tonight (usually they play on Wednesday nights).
This actually works out well for us, too, because poor DanglyBits has been sick all week. He stayed home from work on Wednesday & Thursday & is still a bit weak today, even though he did go to work. He wants to be feeling well when we play with K because he wants to fully enjoy it, too!
So, here's the new plan: If Dangly is feeling up to it tonight after work, we will go down and watch K play soccer. K will come to our place for dinner next Wednesday night (the night before Tgiving) [update: AFTER his soccer game].
Of course, I'm fantasizing about helping K shower after the game tonight, but that probably won't happen since we'll have to leave early to go pick up Dangly's brother from the airport. Still, it's a pleasant fantasy. I think I'll need to go play with some of my toys soon - after all, they *are* waterproof....
***
I came home from work last night to find my poor sick Dangly all snuggled up in heaps of blankets on the couch. When it was time to go to bed, he had a woeful story to tell me. It seems that, to keep himself occupied all day, he had been reading erotica. Now "Phred & the Boys" were "blue" and needed my ministrations. I guess he was feeling better, eh?
So, I took him into the bedroom & asked him to undress me (he couldn't even do that on Wednesday night because he felt so miserably sick). Of course, he ended up caressing my teats and teasing my nipples and fondling my ass. Along the way, he discovered that my cunt was not exactly mimicking the Sahara and I ended up pushing him over onto his back. His cock was as big and beautiful as I've ever seen, so I gently pulled back his foreskin and caressed the head and crown with my tongue, enjoying the subtle taste of his precum and the soft feel of his skin. I then crawled on top of him and, hands-free!, guided it into my waiting, eager pussy. I rode him for a while (I knew taking horseback lessons as a teenager would come in handy someday. I'll never complain about learning to post again!) then he grabbed hold of me and swung his legs up onto the bed & turned so that he was laying along the length of the bed & not across it. From there, I put my knees down around his hips, which gives me the leverage to thrust my hips which allows me to pump faster than if I use my knees (plus it's less tiring - PLUS it rubs my clit nicely!).
After about 5 or 6 orgasms that way - not exaggerating, it had been nearly a week, remember! - I moved my knees down farther & Dangly opened his legs & wrapped them around me & we were in the position he described in his last blog post, kind of a reverse-missionary position where my legs are between his & his legs are wrapped around me. We found that this works best when he squeezes my ass - this helps to keep his cock securely in my pussy (as well as providing more stimulation for me!). In this position, his cock puts quite a bit of pressure on my clit & I just see stars!!
It didn't take him too long to come after that & I kept pumping for a little while to my own stellar orgasm.
He had a coughing fit after that & I hopped off him to give him room to breathe. Soon we discovered that we had "Lake Superior" for our wet spots - yes plural! - & we laughed while we cleaned up, then settled into bed to cuddle & sleep.
Friday, November 14, 2003
• ... and speaking of vag muscles
Back when I was a young 'un just discovering the joys of sexual congress, I used to lay awake in bed at night squeezing my vag muscles. I wanted to make sure that I was "in shape" down there - plus, I think I had recently read a book in which a woman claimed to be able to make a man come just by squeezing.
So, I practiced squeezing the whole thing as a unit; I practiced squeezing from the bottom up (ie. from the opening of my vagina to my cervix); and from the top down (ie. from my cervix to my vaginal opening). I did multiple reps of each of these exercises over and over again. I even practiced going bottom-up-top-down, all in the motion, keeping my vag opening tight the whole time.
By the end of my first marriage, I had lost much of this facility since I hadn't had sex with my husband for several years. So, when I met Dangly & our relationship took off, I immediately went out and bought a Kegelcisor so that I could do my exercises again.
I think Dangly appreciated the fact that I cared enough to work those muscles up again, plus I *know* he enjoyed the results! ;-)
So, I practiced squeezing the whole thing as a unit; I practiced squeezing from the bottom up (ie. from the opening of my vagina to my cervix); and from the top down (ie. from my cervix to my vaginal opening). I did multiple reps of each of these exercises over and over again. I even practiced going bottom-up-top-down, all in the motion, keeping my vag opening tight the whole time.
By the end of my first marriage, I had lost much of this facility since I hadn't had sex with my husband for several years. So, when I met Dangly & our relationship took off, I immediately went out and bought a Kegelcisor so that I could do my exercises again.
I think Dangly appreciated the fact that I cared enough to work those muscles up again, plus I *know* he enjoyed the results! ;-)
• Dear TwiddlyBits....
I recently received 2 emails from women seeking advice. I thought I'd post answers to their questions here in the blog rather than via private email because, hey, it's my blog & I can do what I want, right? ;-)
The first email is from "RS" who wrote to me back in early October (I'm a procrastinator, what can I say?) with this question:
Dangly & I need to get off our asses (ha!) and use it the proper way! Maybe we can do that over the Tgiving holiday. Hmm.... Rest assured, we will post the results here!
(RS, if you've already tried it by this time, please write me again & tell me how it was!)
The second email is from "DC", who writes:
• First off, Em and Lo, from Nerve, are wonderfully witty and just plain fun to read, as well as being very informative and thorough;
• Next, Rachel and Claire from Toys in Babeland have an advice column which I have found to be very well-written, honest and caring;
• Of course, Scarleteen isn't just for teens! They've got all kinds of wonderful things on that site to answer just about any question you might have.
You don't say where you live, DC, but consider attending some sort of sex workshop in your area. Both Good Vibrations and Toys in Babeland have educational events at their stores. You could write to them and ask if they would recommend any place in your area, or ask around in your home town - heck, maybe you could find something via Google - lord knows there's just about everything available via the internet!
I'm sorry, DC, if that sounds like a cop out, but I'm not an expert in female orgasmic response by any stretch of the imagination. I just know what does it for me - but I know enough to know that that doesn't do it for everybody.
I wish you the best of luck in your quest!
As for me, I want to learn how to FE! (I have *got* to buy this video....)
The first email is from "RS" who wrote to me back in early October (I'm a procrastinator, what can I say?) with this question:
Hello, I came across a post about you using the feeldoe. I have a few questions for you, if you dont mind. My husband loves ass play and so do I :) well any how.... *smiles* I know I love it when he enters me in my ass and he has been after me to get a dilldoe to use on him. I came across the feeldoe and I saw how it has a nob and clit ridges for me. How does it feel for the woman? is it worth buying and will it stay in me while I fuck him in the ass? Any input would be great!!Well, RS, to be honest we haven't yet used the Feeldoe in the way in which it's intended. As Dangly wrote back in August "We have had 'my' end in me and we have had 'her' end in her - just not at the same time." Sadly, this still remains the case. I've used it on his ass, but have held it in my hand while doing so because - let's face it - I'm just not accustomed to being in that physical position where I can put my "cock" inside someone! I was afraid of hurting him, so I just held it in my hand. I've had my end in me because it feels damn good and I wanted to get used to it. If the way it feels when I just wear it is any indication, then I know it's going to be wonderful! The nob is perfectly shaped to fill me & it gives me something to grab onto with my vag muscles. It feels like it's a part of me & that it's not going to pop out unexpectedly or anything like that.
Dangly & I need to get off our asses (ha!) and use it the proper way! Maybe we can do that over the Tgiving holiday. Hmm.... Rest assured, we will post the results here!
(RS, if you've already tried it by this time, please write me again & tell me how it was!)
The second email is from "DC", who writes:
I read about how you are able to have multiple orgasms and it really boggles my mind. I've read that women hit their peak in their 30s or so, which means a few more years for me, but I can't imagine anyone having a more difficult time climaxing than I have. It even takes me quite a while when I'm alone and fantasizing...Wow, that's a tough one, DC. You see, I have always been multi-orgasmic and I have always climaxed easily, from the very first times I masturbated (I started near age 6-8). That said, I'd like to point you to a couple of good sex advice columns that may be able to help you with ideas for yourself and/or your lover.
• First off, Em and Lo, from Nerve, are wonderfully witty and just plain fun to read, as well as being very informative and thorough;
• Next, Rachel and Claire from Toys in Babeland have an advice column which I have found to be very well-written, honest and caring;
• Of course, Scarleteen isn't just for teens! They've got all kinds of wonderful things on that site to answer just about any question you might have.
You don't say where you live, DC, but consider attending some sort of sex workshop in your area. Both Good Vibrations and Toys in Babeland have educational events at their stores. You could write to them and ask if they would recommend any place in your area, or ask around in your home town - heck, maybe you could find something via Google - lord knows there's just about everything available via the internet!
I'm sorry, DC, if that sounds like a cop out, but I'm not an expert in female orgasmic response by any stretch of the imagination. I just know what does it for me - but I know enough to know that that doesn't do it for everybody.
I wish you the best of luck in your quest!
As for me, I want to learn how to FE! (I have *got* to buy this video....)
Thursday, November 13, 2003
• Timing is Everything
I knew there must be a reason why I scheduled our next meeting with K to be next Friday the 21st rather than this Friday the 14th. I now have a professional appointment scheduled for Friday night, plus two on Saturday, then 2 appointments on Sunday. I have Monday night free, but it's the *only* night that's free between now and Thanksgiving (other than the 21st), so I am reluctant to give that up, even for a play partner. Add to that the fact that I started my period today, and might not be done before Monday night. (While Dangly & I like to play while I'm menstruating, I'm not sure it's such a great time to add a new play partner, especially since DP would be awkward to say the least.)
After Tgiving weekend, the schedule gets hectic again and there's no free time until after Christmas.
And speaking of play partners, another man from AFF has contacted me. I "winked" at him on AFF a few days ago & he checked out this blog & apparently liked what he saw. I told him about my busy schedule and we agreed that we'd try to meet sometime between Christmas and New Years, so here's hoping that that works out, too! He sent me a very courteous & friendly email with 2 very nice photos - one fully clothed & one fully un-clothed. *chuckle* You should've seen Dangly's face when he saw that photo! I think he was mighty impressed - as was I!
So, after the holidays, it looks like there will be ample opportunities for playtime!
*sigh* Sometimes I wish my schedule wasn't quite so full so I could schedule social things more regularly, but I love what I do & wouldn't trade this for anything. It just gets hectic around holiday time. Things should calm down a bit after New Years.
Meanwhile, I really do hope Dangly can be persuaded to post about Monday night - it was *awesome* and I think he really enjoyed himself. ;-) He's been working late most days this week, though, so hasn't had the mental energy to blog.
After Tgiving weekend, the schedule gets hectic again and there's no free time until after Christmas.
And speaking of play partners, another man from AFF has contacted me. I "winked" at him on AFF a few days ago & he checked out this blog & apparently liked what he saw. I told him about my busy schedule and we agreed that we'd try to meet sometime between Christmas and New Years, so here's hoping that that works out, too! He sent me a very courteous & friendly email with 2 very nice photos - one fully clothed & one fully un-clothed. *chuckle* You should've seen Dangly's face when he saw that photo! I think he was mighty impressed - as was I!
So, after the holidays, it looks like there will be ample opportunities for playtime!
*sigh* Sometimes I wish my schedule wasn't quite so full so I could schedule social things more regularly, but I love what I do & wouldn't trade this for anything. It just gets hectic around holiday time. Things should calm down a bit after New Years.
Meanwhile, I really do hope Dangly can be persuaded to post about Monday night - it was *awesome* and I think he really enjoyed himself. ;-) He's been working late most days this week, though, so hasn't had the mental energy to blog.
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
• He's back!
MBL is back with a new blog name - Moving On. My BlogRoll has been updated.
***
Not much else to tell today - but I will say 2 things:
1. I'm hoping that Dangly will get some time soon to blog about Monday night! and
2. I reallyreallyREALLY like waterproof toys!
***
Not much else to tell today - but I will say 2 things:
1. I'm hoping that Dangly will get some time soon to blog about Monday night! and
2. I reallyreallyREALLY like waterproof toys!
Monday, November 10, 2003
• Oopsie!
Married But Lonely goofed, poor guy.
He accidentally sent an email from his MBL email address to a group of friends & fellow parents (Cub Scout business). He's afraid that they'll be able to put 2+2 together & find his anonymous blog.
So, he's locked down his site for now & will probably be moving to new digs. Once he does, he'll let his blogger buddies know & we'll update our links. But for now, his link over in my Blogroll won't get you anywhere except to a password prompt.
Hurry back, MBL!
***
In other news, I got a nice email from K this morning. After our lunch on Saturday, I sent him a note telling him how much I enjoyed myself. His reply:
He accidentally sent an email from his MBL email address to a group of friends & fellow parents (Cub Scout business). He's afraid that they'll be able to put 2+2 together & find his anonymous blog.
So, he's locked down his site for now & will probably be moving to new digs. Once he does, he'll let his blogger buddies know & we'll update our links. But for now, his link over in my Blogroll won't get you anywhere except to a password prompt.
Hurry back, MBL!
***
In other news, I got a nice email from K this morning. After our lunch on Saturday, I sent him a note telling him how much I enjoyed myself. His reply:
In my opinion, it was actually a pretty cool experience "just" to meet like this, not even talking about any sexual things ... but I hope that will be different the second time :)Me, too, K; me, too! *grin*
Saturday, November 08, 2003
• Lunch with K
Lunch with K today went very well, I thought!
He is a very nice man - polite and courteous - deliciously tall & quite handsome in a yummy Teutonic way. We met at a local Chinese restaurant & all ordered entrées for sharing. After lunch, we walked down to a small coffee shop (where you get to pick your own mugs!) and had coffee and tea, which was nice since the day was turning rather blustery.
He seemed nervous at first - and I *know* I was! (Sometimes I wish I wasn't so shy!) Whenever I would smile at him, our eyes would meet & he would blush & smile back. As we talked about all kinds of things - his experiences living & travelling in Europe & the US; our experiences living in various parts of the US &/or Canada; computers; languages; etc., he & I both relaxed and warmed up to each other.
In short, we hit it off well. :-)
We invited him over for dinner on Friday night, the 21st. He did say that he's available for ad hoc, impromptu get-togethers, too, which was a good thing to hear. We're generally free only on Monday, Friday & Saturday nights, so we have to be careful to schedule social things for those days, but sometimes it's nice to just call someone at the last minute & invite them over.
So, Gentle Readers, the forecast is promising - here's hoping for smooth sailing at our next meeting. Y'all will get to hear all about it as it unfolds.
[Twiddly will now lose herself in thoughts of his chiseled features buried between her thighs or his strong hands holding her head while she sucks his cock. *happy sigh* Oh, Dangly! Can you come here for a minute? I need you to help me with something!]
He is a very nice man - polite and courteous - deliciously tall & quite handsome in a yummy Teutonic way. We met at a local Chinese restaurant & all ordered entrées for sharing. After lunch, we walked down to a small coffee shop (where you get to pick your own mugs!) and had coffee and tea, which was nice since the day was turning rather blustery.
He seemed nervous at first - and I *know* I was! (Sometimes I wish I wasn't so shy!) Whenever I would smile at him, our eyes would meet & he would blush & smile back. As we talked about all kinds of things - his experiences living & travelling in Europe & the US; our experiences living in various parts of the US &/or Canada; computers; languages; etc., he & I both relaxed and warmed up to each other.
In short, we hit it off well. :-)
We invited him over for dinner on Friday night, the 21st. He did say that he's available for ad hoc, impromptu get-togethers, too, which was a good thing to hear. We're generally free only on Monday, Friday & Saturday nights, so we have to be careful to schedule social things for those days, but sometimes it's nice to just call someone at the last minute & invite them over.
So, Gentle Readers, the forecast is promising - here's hoping for smooth sailing at our next meeting. Y'all will get to hear all about it as it unfolds.
[Twiddly will now lose herself in thoughts of his chiseled features buried between her thighs or his strong hands holding her head while she sucks his cock. *happy sigh* Oh, Dangly! Can you come here for a minute? I need you to help me with something!]
Friday, November 07, 2003
• Shopping Expedition
I took a trip to the toy store today.
Yes, one of the benefits of living in the San Francisco Bay Area is access to great sex-positive stores. On-line shopping is fun and convenient, but there's nothing quite like going to a store and seeing, touching & feeling the floor models of all sorts of toys!
Since we broke the cock ring the other night, I wanted to pick up a new one. I got this one which doesn't seem to be listed in the on-line catalog. The vibe for it takes 3 watch batteries, but they sell them 3 for $1.00! Try beating that at your local drug store! Ha!
[aside: Once I get TwiddlyBits' Toy Box up, you'll see that I have a preference for waterproof toys. I like to play in the bathtub, PLUS they're just easier to clean when you don't have to be careful to avoid immersion.]
I also picked up some erotica, including one that I can read in the tub!
Last, but not least, I picked up this guidebook & am *really* looking forward to reading it!
Yes, one of the benefits of living in the San Francisco Bay Area is access to great sex-positive stores. On-line shopping is fun and convenient, but there's nothing quite like going to a store and seeing, touching & feeling the floor models of all sorts of toys!
Since we broke the cock ring the other night, I wanted to pick up a new one. I got this one which doesn't seem to be listed in the on-line catalog. The vibe for it takes 3 watch batteries, but they sell them 3 for $1.00! Try beating that at your local drug store! Ha!
[aside: Once I get TwiddlyBits' Toy Box up, you'll see that I have a preference for waterproof toys. I like to play in the bathtub, PLUS they're just easier to clean when you don't have to be careful to avoid immersion.]
I also picked up some erotica, including one that I can read in the tub!
Last, but not least, I picked up this guidebook & am *really* looking forward to reading it!
• Real Sex is...
Bacchus over at ErosBlog posted the following today:
First, some backstory: I have been teaching music to some kids at a local school. One of the pieces they are learning to play is "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star". We have been working on that piece nearly every day for about 2 weeks now (as well as "Jingle Bells").
While preparing to go to bed, Dangly was helping me out of my clothes. We had the local classical music station on the bedroom stereo and it was playing a nice piano & orchestra piece. We weren't paying much attention to the music, though, because what usually happens when Dangly helps me take off my clothes is that he ends up fondling my breasts and titillating my nipples with his tongue, and things progress from there. Wednesday night was no different in that regard. :-)
What makes Wednesday night a unique experience is that while we were making love, I thought I heard a very distinct motive being played by the orchestra. WTF? I thought through a haze of orgasmic bliss, No, it *can't* be! It's just a very common chord progression, that's all! and went back to the business of having orgasms (of which I had several, thank you very much!).
A little while later, as the piece was building up for the grandiose ending, I *distinctly* heard the piccolo, then the piano play Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star, How I wonder what you are! in a very spritely and cute manner.
I opened my eyes and lamented, "I can't get away from this song!!" then promptly broke out in laughter - deep belly laughs that must have made my pussy go squeeze, squeeze, SQUEEZE, because in no time Dangly was making his "omigod I'm going to come RIGHT NOW and there's not a damn thing you can do about it" face (he's so cute when he does that!) and we were both laughing hysterically.
Of course, my continuing laughter only served to expel his penis, etc., more quickly than usual & we laughed some more as we madly dashed to grab some tissues and prevent The Mother of All Wet Spots.
After we had regained some composure, I kissed Dangly & told him thank you for loving me so much that we can laugh while we make love....
Real sex can be awkward and can make you want to hide under the covers and refuse to come out - or laugh helplessly for ten minutes - or both at the same time. But - risking tautology here - real sex is also real sexy. ... What I love about the sex blog revolution is that it shows the world real sex that was always a secret before.and while I haven't checked sweetness follows yet today to see what specifically Bacchus is referring to, his comment reminds me of something that happened Wednesday night.
First, some backstory: I have been teaching music to some kids at a local school. One of the pieces they are learning to play is "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star". We have been working on that piece nearly every day for about 2 weeks now (as well as "Jingle Bells").
While preparing to go to bed, Dangly was helping me out of my clothes. We had the local classical music station on the bedroom stereo and it was playing a nice piano & orchestra piece. We weren't paying much attention to the music, though, because what usually happens when Dangly helps me take off my clothes is that he ends up fondling my breasts and titillating my nipples with his tongue, and things progress from there. Wednesday night was no different in that regard. :-)
What makes Wednesday night a unique experience is that while we were making love, I thought I heard a very distinct motive being played by the orchestra. WTF? I thought through a haze of orgasmic bliss, No, it *can't* be! It's just a very common chord progression, that's all! and went back to the business of having orgasms (of which I had several, thank you very much!).
A little while later, as the piece was building up for the grandiose ending, I *distinctly* heard the piccolo, then the piano play Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star, How I wonder what you are! in a very spritely and cute manner.
I opened my eyes and lamented, "I can't get away from this song!!" then promptly broke out in laughter - deep belly laughs that must have made my pussy go squeeze, squeeze, SQUEEZE, because in no time Dangly was making his "omigod I'm going to come RIGHT NOW and there's not a damn thing you can do about it" face (he's so cute when he does that!) and we were both laughing hysterically.
Of course, my continuing laughter only served to expel his penis, etc., more quickly than usual & we laughed some more as we madly dashed to grab some tissues and prevent The Mother of All Wet Spots.
After we had regained some composure, I kissed Dangly & told him thank you for loving me so much that we can laugh while we make love....
Thursday, November 06, 2003
• We decided not to go
We decided not to go to the swinger party this Saturday.
Our appointment on Sunday morning requires us to leave the house at 5:30am & what with me still getting over this damn cold (I was *really* sick last Sunday, but have been steadily improving), we didn't think it'd be real smart of us to stay out too late on Saturday night.
The organizers said that the "Meet & Greet" would go from 7:00-9:30, during which they'd play a game called "Flaunt It!" which is apparently like a "strip Uno" (sounds like fun!), then the doors would be closed....
While we could attend the "Meet & Greet", they said they had 10 people on the waiting list & we didn't think it'd be fair for us to take up a seat, er, bed? seeing as how we can't stay much later than that.
We do still have a lunch date planned with K, so we'll be sure to post all the details about that!
Our appointment on Sunday morning requires us to leave the house at 5:30am & what with me still getting over this damn cold (I was *really* sick last Sunday, but have been steadily improving), we didn't think it'd be real smart of us to stay out too late on Saturday night.
The organizers said that the "Meet & Greet" would go from 7:00-9:30, during which they'd play a game called "Flaunt It!" which is apparently like a "strip Uno" (sounds like fun!), then the doors would be closed....
While we could attend the "Meet & Greet", they said they had 10 people on the waiting list & we didn't think it'd be fair for us to take up a seat, er, bed? seeing as how we can't stay much later than that.
We do still have a lunch date planned with K, so we'll be sure to post all the details about that!
Tuesday, November 04, 2003
• Busy Saturday!
It looks like this Saturday will be quite busy!
We've set up a "Getting to Know You" lunch date with K - met online via AFF and who seems *very* nice. He's quite cosmopolitan - has lived in 6 different countries & speaks 3 languages. Plus, he's cute!
Dangly & I realized last night that we have an appointment *very* early on Sunday morning, so if the party on Saturday night is scheduled to start too late, we'll have to decline the invitation. However, if it starts in the early evening, we should be able to go - just maybe not stay too late. We'll see.
We've set up a "Getting to Know You" lunch date with K - met online via AFF and who seems *very* nice. He's quite cosmopolitan - has lived in 6 different countries & speaks 3 languages. Plus, he's cute!
Dangly & I realized last night that we have an appointment *very* early on Sunday morning, so if the party on Saturday night is scheduled to start too late, we'll have to decline the invitation. However, if it starts in the early evening, we should be able to go - just maybe not stay too late. We'll see.
Monday, November 03, 2003
• The invitation
Dangly & I have received an invitation to a "Meet & Greet" swingers party this coming Saturday.
Neither of us have ever been to such a party before. The closest I've come is reading about it on Naked Loft Party!
We have accepted the initial invitation & are awaiting the next contact, which will include details such as the time of the party & the address.
I admit to mixed feelings about this - I'm excited, but nervous, too. I figure it won't hurt us to go & check it out - the invitation said that there would be "no pressure" to do anything we don't want to do. Can't really make an informed judgement until we've tried it, right?
*fret* What will I wear?
Neither of us have ever been to such a party before. The closest I've come is reading about it on Naked Loft Party!
We have accepted the initial invitation & are awaiting the next contact, which will include details such as the time of the party & the address.
I admit to mixed feelings about this - I'm excited, but nervous, too. I figure it won't hurt us to go & check it out - the invitation said that there would be "no pressure" to do anything we don't want to do. Can't really make an informed judgement until we've tried it, right?
*fret* What will I wear?