Wednesday, May 26, 2004

• Coming out of the woodwork 

(Posted by TwiddlyBits)
heh heh heh she said "coming"

It's been a while since I've posted here. Been busy with my jobs - lost one of them due to budget issues - and with travelling. Been busy with life - sometimes it's easy to get wrapped up in the little things & not take the time for stuff that's really important.

It's that time of year when DanglyBits & I take our Bunny Money Jar down and count what's in it, then go buy some bedroom furniture. This year, we were sorely sad to have a mere $160 in it - our first year was nearly $300 and the second year was over $200. We sat down together and talked about this. Why did we have so little money in the jar?!? It certainly wasn't that our attraction for each other had diminished - far from it! We were as horny for each other as ever! So what was it?

We decided that we had let "life" get in the way of enjoying each other. We used to retire to the bedroom every night at around 9:30 to snuggle and giggle and eventually make love in some fashion, even if not all-out intercourse. We hadn't been doing that, choosing instead to sit at the computer and read email or do work or other stuff like that (obviously not blogging!).

We decided that if we wanted to get back to the days of yore, we'd have to make a concerted effort to shut off the computer and go snuggle. We've been doing that all this week & I can tell you that no matter how tired I am, I should always rally up enough energy to let Dangly eat me out! I've posted before about how good he is at it & this past week has just reminded me of that fact! If we're tired, it's not an excuse not to snuggle - snuggling doesn't take much energy and is very soothing and relaxing in and of itself. Plus, the intimacy it engenders between us is to be cherished.

So, we're taking some time to get our sexual relationship back on track - while still surfing Adult Friend Finder and trying to find playmates there - and with the long weekend coming up, should have some blog-worthy stuff coming up soon.

In other news, I have plans to submit a couple of photo essays - I just got some photo album software and am hankerin' to use it - one about my various bits of lingerie and other outré clothing and one about my various toys (perhaps even with pics of me using them!). However, I came back from my last trip with an allergic rash all over my arms, neck and torso, so the pics will have to wait until that clears up. Hopefully by this weekend!!

Oh, and to answer some questions from the comments:

1. Yes, Masterorator, as a matter of fact, I do wear glasses. Well, I used to; I wear contacts now.

2. Remittance Girl, you can do the red hair yourself - it's Garnier Nutrisse #68 "Luscious Mango/Brillian Copper". I love it, too!! :-)

3. Thanks to everyone else who posted comments and/or sent email. I will check them every day & hope to keep up with them better than I have been. Thanks for keeping watch.

Now, it's time to turn off the computer & drag my husband into the bedroom.